Your body wants you to feel better RIGHT NOW
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Hi friend, If you could erase all the discomfort you’re feeling RIGHT NOW with a single text message, why wouldn’t you? Keep reading! I’ll tell you! It’s such a normal human experience to avoid pain, but we’ve all felt it; we’ve felt it after standing up to someone and telling them firmly where we stand. We've felt pain and discomfort because what we said and how we feel could change things. Because we start to second-guess. Because our brains hate the uncertainty. And because our bodies just don't like the feeling! You could send a quick, easy message or say the conciliatory thing in conversation. That would fix it, clarify it, make it all better! But when you do that, you’re giving in! And I promise you that if you take a 10-minute break to sit with the discomfort you’re feeling, you’ll feel so much better in the long run! In that moment, your nervous system is saying, “I can’t stay with this,” or, “I have to fix it to feel okay.” But you have to know friend, that activation ins’t instruction. So take a pause. Trust yourself. You may not get it right every time, but this practice will ultimately help you rewire those old, people-pleasing behaviors, and, eventually, you'll start to feel more confident, more at peace, and more like you. You’ve got this! Jose 💛
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