A mindset balance that will help you grow 🌱
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Hi friend, Over the past couple of weeks, we’ve been talking about scarcity and abundance mindsets. Scarcity isn’t all bad. It can make us creative and help us appreciate the simple things. And abundance isn’t all good, because it can sometimes lead to overwhelm or ignoring limits. Here’s the key: it’s not about choosing one over the other. Both scarcity and abundance shape the way we see ourselves and the world. And both mindsets can be powerful teachers when we let them. ✨ Scarcity can remind us to value what we already have and use our resources wisely. ✨ Abundance can help us believe in possibilities and take courageous steps forward. ​ The real growth happens when we learn to flex between them. Instead of clinging to one mindset as “right” and dismissing the other as “wrong,” we can ask ourselves: ✨ Where do I need the grounding of scarcity right now? ✨ Where do I need the expansiveness of abundance? Balancing both what leads to the deepest healing and forward movement. So the next time you catch yourself stuck in one mindset, pause and consider: what would it look like to invite the other side in? With care, Jose 💛
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